Balancing caring about being liked

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When should you care about being liked and when should you not care? It is a fine balancing act. When we are oversensitive and have a need to be liked, we find ourselves at the mercy of others. On the other hand when we don’t care when we should actually care, our message could be completely lost as our target audience may stare themselves blind against what they perceive to be undesirable characteristics.

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